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Anytime you find yourself on the verge of complaining about PMS and childbirth, both of which are hell on earth, consider this: Women are magical unicorns who can orgasm in a lot more ways than one.

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Contrary to what you might have been told for decades, the clitoris — though capable of providing the granddaddy of all orgasms — isn't the be-all and end-all of pleasure. Here's what you need to know about six of the other ways you can get off — because, hey, orgasming is good for you. Like, literally.

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The G-spot has held court as the clit's main rival though I prefer to use the term "accomplice" for sexual satisfaction for a while, but even seasoned sex enthusiasts can find it challenging to locate the spot. And, of course, once you heed the advice of every sex expert ever and insert two lubed fingers into your vagina with your palm up and feel around for that mysterious rough patch, you may be disappointed to find you feel, well, very little of note.

While the clitoris feels stimulation mainly from the pudendal nerve and possibly from the pelvic nerve, McGough says areas like the G-spot turn you on thanks to the pelvic nerve and a little-known nerve called the vagus nerve, which is not at all connected to the clitoris. Some women can get sexually aroused in this area and can produce ejaculate [or] squirting when this is stimulated.

The best sex position for hitting the G-sSpot? Try woman-on-top, but lean back slightly to allow his penis to hit the right spot.

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Plus, chances are he'll think it's hot. For most women, nipple stimulation is only a way to assist with arousal, but for some women, particularly at the right hormonal state, orgasm can be achieved when her partner rubs or sucks her breasts and nipples.

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True fact: Astudy in the Journal of Sexual Medicine proved women's brains reacted the same way to nipple stimulation as they did to when they had their genitals stimulated. Studies performed in recent years have successfully linked the stimulation of the vagus nerve in areas like the breasts with orgasm but, unfortunately, other researchers are reluctant to move the female orgasm conversation beyond the clitoris. That's the unfortunate reality of women's sexual health research currently, but that seems to be changing and I think there will be a renaissance for women's sexual knowledge in the next few decades.

Experiment with different ways of stimulating your breasts and nipples — from massaging the entire breast slowly to pinching your nipples with firm fingers. You never know what might set you off! You can never have too many fun letters! The A-spot refers to "anterior," specifically at the fornix, the pocket between the cervix and the bladder, Ingber says. It's not always pleasurable for every woman, however.

Many women experience pain with cervical motion, or pelvic floor spasms, but partners can explore and see if this is pleasurable. Some people call the A-spot the "second G-spot" because the stimulation method is similar, just higher up in the vagina, McGough says.

To achieve orgasm from the A or G, women need both the right type of stimulation being both at the right location and the right speed and range of movement and they need to be mentally prepared to feel it, McGough says. The best advice I can give is approach it as a massage to feel the experience don't think — just feel without orgasm as being the goal. Anal sex isn't something women do for men — it's a highly erotic position that can prove incredibly orgasmic for some women.

Anal stimulation stimulates the sacral nerve. Stimulating the anus causes the 'bulbocavernosus reflex' to fire. This is a reflex from the spine a reflex just like if you hit your knee. If you stimulate the anus, this reflex will cause the clitoris to move or contract. Also, if you stimulate the clitoris, the anus contracts. So you may be stimulating the clitoris to some degree indirectly from this reflex.

Meet the latest sex letter star — the most appropriately named one of all: the O-spot. The O-spot refers Sucking your boobs and fingering your clit an area located on the opposite side behind the cervix facing towards the woman's back in the vaginal canal, McGough says. It may be a little harder to locate, but the best way to start is to ask your partner to insert his longest finger into your vagina — in the opposite direction he would use when stimulating your G-spot. Sucking your boobs and fingering your clit should feel a spongy area on the back wall of the vagina.

Ask him to make a come hither al with his finger and discover whether this little-known spot makes you wild. Although it has been discussed in Indian Tantric and Chinese Taoist Yoga techniques, McGough stresses that direct physical stimulation, our hormonal states, and mental stimulation typically work together to help create an incredible orgasm and that it's rare to come from stimulating thoughts or a night of porn viewing with your hands placed firmly in your pockets.

But, of course, it's not impossible. Above all, it's important to remember that exploring your orgasm options is a reward in and of itself — discovering none of these alternatives work for you should not make you feel ashamed or let down. Everything is normal and OK as long as it's consensual. Follow Lisa on Twitter and Redbook on Facebook. Type keyword s to search.

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