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I imagine most guys have all asked themselves at one point or another while dating …. What makes her tick? How does what I say, and how I act, affect her?
Three guys submitted three really good questions along these lines. Specifically, why do good girls go for bad guys? Why do girls put themselves down? And, how do you let a girl down easy? Seeing a really nice girl go out with a guy that treats her terribly can be frustrating to any good guy who cares and is doing all the right things. What is that all about? Joseph asked: What is the motivation for a woman to go after an abusivedegrading man when she can just as easily get a nicer, more respectful guy?
This is a great question, Joseph. Many guys have spent sleepless nights wondering that same thing. Let me try to answer it. Sadly, some women are confused by the drama of an abusive relationship. It seems normal to them. That is why you will see some girls Why girls go for bad guys back to the same cruel, controlling, obsessive, and yes, abusive guy.
Encourage them that they are worth morebut you might not be able to change their thinking. Believe me, there are many girls who will respect the fact that you respect them. Women love a man with a great amount of confidence. Many like guys who go their own way and do their own thing. They value strength and like to know their man will protect them in a dangerous situation. While everyone is different, these are some of the things that women are drawn toward.
Unfortunately, many guys who exhibit these characteristics can take them to the extreme and be self-centered, demanding, and even abusive. They are not a challenge.
They are easy to figure outeasy to trust, easy to understand. Not a bad thing at all, but some women like a challenge and the chase. Rather consider increasing the confidence you have in yourself. Move confidently toward the things you are interested in, and excel at those things. Remember, the more confident you become, the more attractive you are. What motivates a girl to talk bad about herself?
Is she doing it for attention? Is she seeking a compliment? Or does she really have that low of self-esteem? Could you explain why they say those things about themselves? Society tells girls over and over again, unless they look a certain way they are an inferior product. Most women love to feel beautiful. The amount of shopping done is proof of that. They can spend hundreds of dollars on clothes, makeup and jewelry, all because it makes them feel more attractive. It would be great if all women understood the powerful truth about inner beauty.
Inner beauty is the good qualities that come from within, such as love, kindness, compassion, creativity, and sensitivity to the opposite sex. Yet, many young women neglect developing the inner beauty and work only on the outer shell of their physical being.
God has made each of us beautiful in incredibly unique ways. Therefore, many women find it effective to cut themselves downjust so they can hear someone disagree with them. This will give a priceless boost to her self-esteem. I appreciate this question from a guy who wanted to remain anonymous.
It shows Why girls go for bad guys has enough respect for women to be kind and caring with their hearts. He asked, How does a guy politely say he is not attracted to a girl? She may be nice, well-grounded, and a great future wife, but when there is no physical attraction, how should that be communicated to the girl?
Some guys will just brush the girl offand ignore her, neglecting any kind of future contact with her. This is a pretty sad treatment of women. So how do you do it? Keep it simple. Be as honest as possible. If you want to be friends with her and nothing more, tell her that. Bottom line is that physical attraction is important for a long-lasting relationship to succeed.
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